I have recently moved to Sydney from
Nowra after two months. Being in Sydney reminds me that I am instill in a foreign country.
Nowra was eerily similar to living in small town Nebraska. Its good
to know that where I came from is no different than other places on
the other side of the world, There is nothing wrong with that.
When traveling in a condensed period of time people make decisions
that could last a lifetime. When traveling over a long period of
time each decision I make feel like an earth shattering decision,
knowing that I have only so much time before my work visa runs out.
My last night in Nowra I was asked if traveling helps self
confidence, and I was not sure how to answer. After several days of
thinking about this I have come to the conclusion that I now fell
less self confident because I now realize that where I am from is not
all that cool and the I don't really feel any more special than any
other guy next to me.
Recently my girlfriend and I, who I met
in New Zealand decided to give ourselves another chance. Her name is
Emily and she is from South Carolina. We met over a year ago and it
seems like everywhere we turn we have similarities. When we met in
New Zealand she was just starting her working holiday, at the same
time I was just finishing up. I recently talked to a guy who told me
that when traveling as a couple it seems like 10 years of a
relationship is compressed into 10 days. I can totally relate to
that. We have relocated to Sydney together and we are both looking
for full time work. Emily does promotions for a living and I am
doing the construction thing again. She always finds employment
easily. We both admit that we would have never met each other if we
were not traveling. She is my first long term girlfriend and I made a litany of mistakes he first time around that I have now corrected. Everyone has their reasons to travel. I have
never really been sure of my reasons, but I am very sure that I would
be very happy to travel with Emily anytime.
Traveling opens the mind. It allows you to experience things in your life that most people never get to do. It shows you that in some ways people are very different all over the world but, on the other hand everyone is completely the same, everywhere. Goodluck with your lady.
ReplyDeleteI like Nebraska and I have lived in a "cool" place--California.
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